6 Ways To Manage Money Like An Adult

I am a student of Financial Peace University by Dave Ramsey. Which means I do not care about my credit score, I believe debt is a trap, not a tool, and  I plan to live the rest of my life by cash. With that being said here’s how I manage my money like an adult. […]

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On Overcoming Hopelessness

Everyone loves to tell you how you should feel but when feelings of hopelessness loom it can be hard to feel anything-and that’s okay. Your emotions just like your body need attention and care. Don’t push yourself emotionally. When I fell into depression, hopelessness followed. Everyone kept telling me to pull myself together. People are counting […]

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On finding balance and managing stress

Finding balance and managing stress are key to a life well lived.  Clarify Your Vision We live a life based on what you see. For a some this isn’t a problem as they’ve matured with champagne problems and see the world full of opportunities. For many others, however, they’ve matured under the pressure of trauma, violence, […]

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No more social media.

I’m really excited about my social media break. I say break because I know one day I’ll have to leave my cozy place of anonymity and return to the daily digital space. This hiatus started involuntarily as I couldn’t bring myself to prepare, post, or engage in any sort of social media activity while I […]

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My night time routine (while ill)

Sleep hygiene is something I’ve consciously focused on for years. It’s so important to maintaining personal happiness. On most nights I feel scared and anxious but I find that a night time routine helps me to get better sleep. Here is my night time routine while ill. Drink a little tea. I like my evenings […]

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NEWvember?

Every single month before the month begins I do a handwritten budget where I tell my money where to go. Except for the last few months when I didn’t tell my money where to go… because well… I got busy…transitioning. But this month when I looked at my account it was overdrawn by $27.64. I […]

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I Booked a Flight to Africa!

I booked a flight to Rwanda, Africa  and paid off over $2300 in DEBT, so far this month. Everything about that sentence blows my entire mind because at no other time in my life would I have been able to pay cash for a flight to Africa… I mean it’s AFRICA!!!! Pay all my bills […]

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