At the heart of gift-giving is attunement. It’s more than just paying attention; it’s about being aware of and responsive to the people you love.

When I stopped striving for specific outcomes and instead aligned my actions with my intentions, my dreams started coming true in ways I couldn’t have imagined.

Four times a year, a super-stylish person takes to the internet to tell us novice fashion and style girlies about the 8–10 must-have investment pieces for the season.

Your daddy knew you existed before I did. We conceived you on Valentine’s Day, and by the time you were just four weeks along, he had already noticed the subtle changes in my body, telling me he thought I was pregnant.

This realization has made me think about how fashion works best when it starts with function. Instead of chasing trends, it’s about asking: what do I need? Take denim, for example. Right now, the trend is “anything but skinny jeans.”

At the end of every year, I reflect on my life by answering 21 questions about the seven areas of happiness. This ritual usually starts right after Thanksgiving and wraps up before the first weekend in December.

It was the style content, though, that sparked the most joy I’d felt online in a long time. Soon, I found myself consuming style content just as much, if not more, than book content.

When we first started dating, I asked him how he liked to be romanced. One of his top three answers? Food.